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He says married men account for at least 40 percent of the site’s sugar daddies. Sugar babies outnumber sugar daddies by a ratio of nearly 10 to 1. Wade declined to disclose how much money he makes from the site.

Don’t give your name out right away

How long does it take to be approved on Seeking Arrangement?

24-48 hours

But I have to warn you, once you experience the sweetness of having this kind of relationship, it’s pretty hard to go back to normal dating. Because you’ll get used to having all those benefits.

Richard, one of Brian’s sugar daddies, is married to a man who won’t have sex with him anymore. A Yale graduate from the class of 1977, Richard has achieved success in standard terms.

I felt lousy about letting our relationship fizzle, but it would have been worse to prolong it. It was difficult to concede that I might be as much of a sucker for conventional wooing as the next girl, and frustrating to realize that I’d have to find another way to make a living. But it’s one thing to intellectualize something and quite another to live it. We both ordered eggs, and by the time our food arrived I had grown to like Charlie. For starters, he provided an earnest explanation for joining Seeking Arrangement.

A real pain in the ass. They were just wasting my time so I would spend more money on a membership. Money is a way Brian said he can “present himself as a product.” Usually, once something is bought, it’s owned.

• I am speaking up about this to hopefully warn any women who goes on sugar daddy websites.
• “SeekingArrangement is a hook-up and call girl platform.
• Brents equated modern-day college students seeking online sugar daddies to a phenomenon among young, working women nearly a century ago.

Interviews with Sugar Babies and Sugar Daddies are meant to reflect individual experiences and do not necessarily reflect Refinery29’s point of view. Refinery29 in no way encourages illegal activity or harmful behavior. I am much more concerned now about the perception from my girlfriend’s friends as they potentially view me as more predatory.

Is there a Seeking Arrangement app?

Three-month of premium membership cost $44.85, which reduces the monthly cost to $14.95. And finally, if you pay for a six-month subscription, one month will only cost you $9.95. So, we can safely state that SeekingArrangement services cost less than average in the market.

Rich guys well past their prime have been plunking down money for thousands of years in search of a tryst or something more with women half their age — and women, willingly or not, have made themselves available. With the whole process going digital, women passing through a system of higher education that fosters indebtedness are using the anonymity of the web to sell their wares and pay down their college loans. When I started dating through Seeking Arrangement, I thought I was someone who could enter into a relationship for financial reasons and not feel cheapened by it. Ultimately, I realized that I’m not that progressive, or that, for whatever reason, being financially independent means something to me.

How much does seeking arrangement cost?

How long does it take for my profile to be approved? Please be patient, photos and profiles enter the approval process in the order they were received. This usually takes 24-48 hours, however if the site is experiencing a high volume, this process may take longer.

You’ll be safer. This rule also goes for generally meeting people from online. SeekingArrangement has a growing database of over 13 million members who know exactly what they want and refuse to settle for anything less. They can be forthright in their profiles and come to an arrangement that satisfies both parties.

They are ugly but once you have sex with them, those are kind of people that will spoil you, not these fuckboys who just want to buy you a drink and don’t plan to see you regularly. I made hell a lot of money, but again, it came with the price of fucking extremely ugly but at the same time the men who treated me the best.

Others may be entirely about companionship or platonic financial support. It’s a tricky line to draw. If you are seriously looking to become a sugar baby, it is most important to be upfront about consent, conscious of your own safety, and fully aware of the terms of an arrangement. It comes down to figuring out your desires and finding someone who is on the same page, then establishing some rules.